Comments on: I wonder… http://kamui-shirou.blog.friendster.com/2007/09/i-wonder-2/ Wed, 30 Dec 2009 06:20:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Rishival http://kamui-shirou.blog.friendster.com/2007/09/i-wonder-2/#comment-28 Rishival Mon, 21 Apr 2008 09:59:22 +0000 http://kamui-shirou.blog.friendster.com/2007/09/i-wonder-2/#comment-28 well,a simpler way to look at it is this. IF you like a gal as a friend and you have sexual attractions(mutual) but both aren't looking for commitment with each other and perhaps would rather something else in a would be girlfriend.hence,sex with a friend = friends with benefits.Nothing complicated.You just dont want the commiment(mutually) or that the attraction is there but not to the point of a relationship. You're still friends...and once sex gets involved it's a 'friend with benefit'.Nothing evil nothing deceptive nothing complicated. Only problem is should the feeling not be mutual. Whether it works out? hmm...yeah...but yes at times you get "hidden" feelings which complicate the whole thing. well,a simpler way to look at it is this. IF you like a gal as a friend and you have sexual attractions(mutual) but both aren’t looking for commitment with each other and perhaps would rather something else in a would be girlfriend.hence,sex with a friend = friends with benefits.Nothing complicated.You just dont want the commiment(mutually) or that the attraction is there but not to the point of a relationship. You’re still friends…and once sex gets involved it’s a ‘friend with benefit’.Nothing evil nothing deceptive nothing complicated. Only problem is should the feeling not be mutual. Whether it works out? hmm…yeah…but yes at times you get “hidden” feelings which complicate the whole thing.

]]> By: John KJ http://kamui-shirou.blog.friendster.com/2007/09/i-wonder-2/#comment-27 John KJ Sat, 15 Sep 2007 08:54:24 +0000 http://kamui-shirou.blog.friendster.com/2007/09/i-wonder-2/#comment-27 Not too sure. But I reckon in such situations. Boundaries, especially uncomprimising boundaries must always be set up. A straight open in the face telling each other that this is only for intimacy and not thought of pursuing a commitment. If not it's not going to work. Hehe, Movies thought me, in the scenario theres a girlfriend who has a best 'guyfriend', the high tendency the best 'guyfriend' always had a crush or has a crush on the girl especially if he's still single. But then again, there would always be the 'hopefuls' which would agree to such arrangement who still has inner desires for something more. Eventually that person might burn-out and get frustrated. :P DOn't know if that helps. :D Not too sure. But I reckon in such situations. Boundaries, especially uncomprimising boundaries must always be set up. A straight open in the face telling each other that this is only for intimacy and not thought of pursuing a commitment. If not it’s not going to work.

Hehe, Movies thought me, in the scenario theres a girlfriend who has a best ‘guyfriend’, the high tendency the best ‘guyfriend’ always had a crush or has a crush on the girl especially if he’s still single.

But then again, there would always be the ‘hopefuls’ which would agree to such arrangement who still has inner desires for something more. Eventually that person might burn-out and get frustrated. :P
DOn’t know if that helps. :D

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